Her husband rarely sees her anymore. She's the CEO of a company who supplies electricity to ten of the largest states on the map. They have children together. She buys him cars, vacation homes, anything he wants, but they're not really happy. He wants a divorce, but he knows she'll make it hard on him after making him into the man that he is. He makes her look good. He's handsome, has a body to die for. She has what seems to be the perfect situation, but she needs more than what her husband is giving her. The attractive man she met during a business proposal fits her perfectly. He's suave, has a billion-dollar business and all he wants is someone who will complement him. There's a huge difference between compliment and complement. While her husband is doing his thing, Mrs. Taffy and Mr. Lollipop enjoys walks on the pier eating ice cream which turns into secluded romantic nights on her yacht or in one of his upscale hotels. Eventually, Mr. Lollipops follows Mrs. Taffy lead and succumbs to her desires, but he's by no means a idiot. He knows when things are shady. He lets her know that he can no longer see her until her divorce is final. After all, she wasn't honest from the begining. She may have still been sleeping with her husband and never been getting a divorce in the first place. She said they didn't occupy the same residence, but did they? Her deceit was a major turn off. Mrs. Taffy begs for his mercy and prays he stays, she even asked him for a sacred part of him, but he resists the hold she has over him and walks away. When her husband finds out about Mr. Lollipop, of course, he doesn't want to look like the loser although Mr. Lollipop is sharper than he could ever be in every aspect, he desires to make his relationship work even if the love has died. Now can Mr. Lollipop get credit for sending Mrs. Taffy back home to her husband? He was misled, but was man enough to walk away for good and never look back. She wasn't his type of woman. If she cheated on her husband would she do the same thing to him? Material substance should never define who you are. Although Mr. Lollipop fell, the word says, "WE FALL DOWN, BUT WE GET UP." God looks at the heart. When we plan sin, we're in trouble and even if we do commit a sin, which we will, God washes it way and we're covered in His blood. The devil throws our past in our faces, but God, encourages us to move forward and never let our past have control over our future. Mr. Lollipop is forgiven and no longer goes by the name "LOLLIPOP." They call him "POPILLOL" he did a reverse and married the most beautiful woman on the planet who completed the man God desired him to be. Does blame override forgiveness? Blame won't fix the problem. Mr. and Mrs. Taffy, seek godly counsel if you truly want your marriage to work. The fire can be rekindled.
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4/23/2009 1:02 AM
Pharoh Brown wrote:
THE deception of temptation greatest threat is when it appeals to our human desires while giving us reason to believe our actions are for a greater good.Politicians provide empty promises and lie to gain power;companies provide hidden charges or misrepresent the truth to persuade;individuals lie to get out of situations or to gain advantage.This is all with the focus that if it seems right to me,it must be right.Many believe that the ends justify the means.When someone thinks the end results is good,those who walk according to the flesh will also believe that the methods they use to achieve what is assumed to be good is not important.This is why Bible warns that the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked.There is a way that seemth right to a man,but the end thereof are the ways of death.Our feelings are reliable indicators of truth.Is there any sin that we have committed that didn't seem or feel good at that time?The truth is is that we should never put our human needs above our spiritual need.Happiness is for a moment but the consequences can be eternal.When our lives are lived in the flesh we will seek our fulfillment in things that draw us away from GOD and rob us from eternal rewards. Until GOD becomes our exceedingly great reward,worthless things will appear to have value.Sin arises when we are looking at life through the lens of the flesh.Each of us were born with a hunger for GOD and until we are born again and live according to the Spirit,we will seek to fill the emptiness with things that promise satisfaction but have no true value and cannot satisfy-Faithful are the wounds of a friend;but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.The full soul loatheth the honeycomb;but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.PROVERBS 27:6-7Your flesh is our enemy.Like the deceptive kisses of those who secretly seek the harm of another,the temptation that appeals to us presents itself as goodness but in reality is for our harm.Lust masquerades as love;greed masquerades as success;hate masquerades as righteous indignation but the truth is evident.The end of Proverbs 7-when you are hungry,even the bitter thing in life will look sweet.I believe MR.Lollipop did use some wisdom in the end and yes GOD will forgive our sins but we must realize that there are consequences and that when we willingly sin and presume upon His grace,GOD will deal with our sins.Consider Psalms 19:13 Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins let them not have dominion over me;then shall I be upright,and I shall be innocent from the great transgression.So if we keep our eyes towards the Hills from which comes our help trusting and hoping in the word as our guide in this world,we will be able to,'GET BACK UP,WHEN WE FALL'..I am hopeful that Mr.&MRS.Taffy with the proper help shall get pass this too.Miss YOU SISTA GIRL Reply to this
4/23/2009 8:30 PM
cinnamon wrote:
So, true sis. And we've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God and yes, we reap what we sow. I know through God's grace and loving care anything is possible so as long as the couple can forgive, with the guidance of God, they shall overcome. And Mrs. Taffy must learn that when there is a void in her life, God can fulfill what no man can't. Her husband comes first. The lust of her soul must be tamed. She can't go outside of home every time she's feeling weak, unloved or in an vulnerable state because that's a dangerous game to play. Say, Mr. Lollipop was a lunatic. That could've started some real drama and who would've been held accountable for that? Mr. Lollipop was minding his business and let the devil lure him in. She took advantage of his situation. Yes, women can force men into sexual acts. Their first encounter was unwanted but he allowed himself to be put into that situation and then did it again willingly thinking since it was done once, he could get away with it the second time because after all, he desired to be pleased and was but then realized, it wasn't as good as he thought, it was just that he hadn't made love to a woman in what seemed like forever. And when he finally married his soul-mate, he knew Mrs. Taffy was just an illusion; she wasn't the real deal............to be continued Reply to this
4/23/2009 8:32 PM
gina thompson wrote:
Wow! That's truly puissant. I thought it was an excerpt from the next book sis. Reply to this
4/23/2009 8:34 PM
Loren Terrell wrote:
Who would have ever thougth quiet Alice would have such profound words to pass on.. luv it!!! Reply to this
THE deception of temptation greatest threat is when it appeals to our human desires while giving us reason to believe our actions are for a greater good.Politicians provide empty promises and lie to gain power;companies provide hidden charges or misrepresent the truth to persuade;individuals lie to get out of situations or to gain advantage.This is all with the focus that if it seems right to me,it must be right.Many believe that the ends justify the means.When someone thinks the end results is good,those who walk according to the flesh will also believe that the methods they use to achieve what is assumed to be good is not important.This is why Bible warns that the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked.There is a way that seemth right to a man,but the end thereof are the ways of death.Our feelings are reliable indicators of truth.Is there any sin that we have committed that didn't seem or feel good at that time?The truth is is that we should never put our human needs above our spiritual need.Happiness is for a moment but the consequences can be eternal.When our lives are lived in the flesh we will seek our fulfillment in things that draw us away from GOD and rob us from eternal rewards. Until GOD becomes our exceedingly great reward,worthless things will appear to have value.Sin arises when we are looking at life through the lens of the flesh.Each of us were born with a hunger for GOD and until we are born again and live according to the Spirit,we will seek to fill the emptiness with things that promise satisfaction but have no true value and cannot satisfy-Faithful are the wounds of a friend;but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.The full soul loatheth the honeycomb;but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.PROVERBS 27:6-7Your flesh is our enemy.Like the deceptive kisses of those who secretly seek the harm of another,the temptation that appeals to us presents itself as goodness but in reality is for our harm.Lust masquerades as love;greed masquerades as success;hate masquerades as righteous indignation but the truth is evident.The end of Proverbs 7-when you are hungry,even the bitter thing in life will look sweet.I believe MR.Lollipop did use some wisdom in the end and yes GOD will forgive our sins but we must realize that there are consequences and that when we willingly sin and presume upon His grace,GOD will deal with our sins.Consider Psalms 19:13 Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins let them not have dominion over me;then shall I be upright,and I shall be innocent from the great transgression.So if we keep our eyes towards the Hills from which comes our help trusting and hoping in the word as our guide in this world,we will be able to,'GET BACK UP,WHEN WE FALL'..I am hopeful that Mr.&MRS.Taffy with the proper help shall get pass this too.Miss YOU SISTA GIRL
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So, true sis. And we've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God and yes, we reap what we sow. I know through God's grace and loving care anything is possible so as long as the couple can forgive, with the guidance of God, they shall overcome. And Mrs. Taffy must learn that when there is a void in her life, God can fulfill what no man can't. Her husband comes first. The lust of her soul must be tamed. She can't go outside of home every time she's feeling weak, unloved or in an vulnerable state because that's a dangerous game to play. Say, Mr. Lollipop was a lunatic. That could've started some real drama and who would've been held accountable for that? Mr. Lollipop was minding his business and let the devil lure him in. She took advantage of his situation. Yes, women can force men into sexual acts. Their first encounter was unwanted but he allowed himself to be put into that situation and then did it again willingly thinking since it was done once, he could get away with it the second time because after all, he desired to be pleased and was but then realized, it wasn't as good as he thought, it was just that he hadn't made love to a woman in what seemed like forever. And when he finally married his soul-mate, he knew Mrs. Taffy was just an illusion; she wasn't the real deal............to be continued
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Wow! That's truly puissant. I thought it was an excerpt from the next book sis.
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Who would have ever thougth quiet Alice would have such profound words to pass on.. luv it!!!
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